Sex magic is real

and other lessons I've learned recently

Do you ever fantasize during sex? About people who aren't your partner?

I’ve only done it a few times, always accidentally. It just happens. It’s usually the first indicator that a relationship is no longer right for me. I don’t think it’s sinful or intentional, at least it never was for me. Fantasies speak to subconscious yearnings—for something differe…